{"id":18899,"date":"2026-10-18T07:38:01","date_gmt":"2026-10-18T07:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/scales\/couts-et-benefices-de-lamitie\/"},"modified":"2026-10-18T07:38:01","modified_gmt":"2026-10-18T07:38:01","slug":"couts-et-benefices-de-lamitie","status":"publish","type":"psych_scale","link":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/?psych_scale=couts-et-benefices-de-lamitie","title":{"rendered":"Co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices de l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. R\u00e9sum\u00e9 \/ Abstract<\/h2>\n<p>L\u2019\u00e9chelle des co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices de l\u2019amiti\u00e9 (<em>Cost and Benefit of Friendship Scale<\/em>, ou <strong>CBFS<\/strong>), con\u00e7ue \u00e0 l&rsquo;origine par les psychologues \u00e9volutionnistes <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Buss\">David M. Buss<\/a> et April L. Bleske en 2000, constitue un outil d&rsquo;\u00e9valuation psychom\u00e9trique d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 pour cartographier et quantifier les dimensions adaptatives sous-jacentes aux relations amicales humaines. Contrairement aux relations de parent\u00e9 r\u00e9gies par la s\u00e9lection de parent\u00e8le (<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Inclusive_fitness\">inclusive fitness<\/a>) ou aux relations amoureuses orient\u00e9es vers la reproduction conjointe, l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 entre individus non apparent\u00e9s soul\u00e8ve des \u00e9nigmes th\u00e9oriques majeures quant \u00e0 son \u00e9volution et son maintien. La CBFS comprend une s\u00e9rie de 115 \u00e0 116 \u00e9nonc\u00e9s comportementaux et relationnels mesur\u00e9s au moyen d&rsquo;un syst\u00e8me d&rsquo;\u00e9valuation bidirectionnel sur une \u00e9chelle de Likert en 7 points (allant de \u00ab Pas du tout \u00bb \u00e0 \u00ab Mod\u00e9r\u00e9ment \u00bb jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 \u00ab Extr\u00eamement \u00bb), permettant d&rsquo;appr\u00e9cier simultan\u00e9ment dans quelle mesure un item est per\u00e7u en tant que b\u00e9n\u00e9fice potentiel ou en tant que co\u00fbt inh\u00e9rent au lien amical.<\/p>\n<p>L&rsquo;instrument s&rsquo;applique tant aux amiti\u00e9s de m\u00eame sexe (<em>same-sex friendships<\/em>) qu&rsquo;aux amiti\u00e9s de sexe oppos\u00e9 (<em>opposite-sex friendships<\/em>). Les analyses factorielles r\u00e9v\u00e8lent des structures sous-jacentes robustes regroupant des facteurs fondamentaux tels que l&rsquo;acc\u00e8s \u00e0 un vivier de partenaires reproductifs, la protection physique, le soutien \u00e9motionnel et informationnel sur le sexe oppos\u00e9, l&rsquo;\u00e9l\u00e9vation du statut social, mais \u00e9galement des co\u00fbts critiques tels que la rivalit\u00e9 intrasexuelle, l&rsquo;asym\u00e9trie de l&rsquo;attirance amoureuse ou sexuelle, les conflits jaloux avec les partenaires romantiques attitr\u00e9s et la d\u00e9perdition de ressources \u00e9conomiques et temporelles. D&rsquo;un point de vue psychom\u00e9trique, la CBFS pr\u00e9sente des indices de consistance interne \u00e9lev\u00e9s, avec des coefficients alpha de Cronbach oscillant g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement entre 0,72 et 0,91 selon les sous-\u00e9chelles et les conditions d&rsquo;administration. Elle offre une sensibilit\u00e9 remarquable aux variations intersexes pr\u00e9dites par la psychologie \u00e9volutionniste des relations interpersonnelles.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Mots-cl\u00e9s \/ Keywords<\/h2>\n<p>Amiti\u00e9, Psychologie \u00e9volutionniste, Co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices, Amiti\u00e9 de sexe oppos\u00e9, Amiti\u00e9 de m\u00eame sexe, Attirance sexuelle, Rivalit\u00e9 intrasexuelle, Soutien social, Alliances sociales, Propri\u00e9t\u00e9s psychom\u00e9triques.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Auteurs \/ Authors<\/h2>\n<p>L&rsquo;\u00e9chelle a \u00e9t\u00e9 d\u00e9velopp\u00e9e et valid\u00e9e par les chercheurs suivants :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>April L. Bleske-Rechek (n\u00e9e Bleske)<\/strong> : Docteure en psychologie, professeure \u00e9m\u00e9rite au d\u00e9partement de psychologie de l&rsquo;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.uwec.edu\/\">Universit\u00e9 du Wisconsin-Eau Claire<\/a> (\u00c9tats-Unis). Ses recherches se concentrent principalement sur la psychologie \u00e9volutionniste des liens d&rsquo;amiti\u00e9, l&rsquo;attirance interpersonnelle et les dynamiques relationnelles quotidiennes. Courriel institutionnel : <a href=\"mailto:bleskeal@uwec.edu\">bleskeal@uwec.edu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>David M. Buss<\/strong> : Docteur en psychologie de l&rsquo;Universit\u00e9 de Californie \u00e0 Berkeley, professeur de psychologie \u00e0 l&rsquo;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/www.utexas.edu\/\">Universit\u00e9 du Texas \u00e0 Austin<\/a> (\u00c9tats-Unis). Figure de proue mondiale de la <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Evolutionary_psychology\">psychologie \u00e9volutionniste<\/a>, il est mondialement reconnu pour ses travaux pionniers sur les strat\u00e9gies sexuelles, la jalousie, le conflit entre les sexes et la formation d&rsquo;alliances sociales. Courriel institutionnel : <a href=\"mailto:dbuss@austin.utexas.edu\">dbuss@austin.utexas.edu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>4. Objectif \/ Purpose<\/h2>\n<p>L&rsquo;objectif fondamental de la <em>Cost and Benefit of Friendship Scale<\/em> est d&rsquo;\u00e9lucider la logique fonctionnelle et adaptative guidant la formation, l&rsquo;entretien et la dissolution des liens d&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 chez l&rsquo;adulte. D&rsquo;un point de vue \u00e9volutif, consacrer du temps, de l&rsquo;\u00e9nergie et des ressources mat\u00e9rielles \u00e0 des individus avec lesquels on ne partage pas de patrimoine g\u00e9n\u00e9tique direct (absence de consanguinit\u00e9 imm\u00e9diate) et avec lesquels la procr\u00e9ation n&rsquo;est traditionnellement pas la finalit\u00e9 explicite repr\u00e9sente un investissement co\u00fbteux. La CBFS a donc \u00e9t\u00e9 con\u00e7ue pour identifier exhaustivement la palette des r\u00e9tributions (b\u00e9n\u00e9fices) et des fardeaux (co\u00fbts) qui modulent ces alliances au sein des soci\u00e9t\u00e9s contemporaines.<\/p>\n<p>Sur le plan fondamental et conceptuel, la CBFS r\u00e9sout plusieurs ambigu\u00eft\u00e9s document\u00e9es dans la litt\u00e9rature en psychologie sociale. Pendant plusieurs d\u00e9cennies, la recherche s&rsquo;est limit\u00e9e \u00e0 consid\u00e9rer l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 sous le seul prisme de la camaraderie, de l&rsquo;affinit\u00e9 r\u00e9ciproque et de la validation narcissique ou affective. L&rsquo;\u00e9chelle de Bleske et Buss r\u00e9int\u00e8gre au contraire les imp\u00e9ratifs \u00e9cologiques et sexuels :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>L&rsquo;acc\u00e8s privil\u00e9gi\u00e9 \u00e0 l&rsquo;accouplement :<\/strong> La CBFS permet de mesurer comment l&rsquo;ami(e) de sexe oppos\u00e9 peut servir de partenaire romantique\/sexuel potentiel, ou comment l&rsquo;ami(e) du m\u00eame sexe peut faciliter l&rsquo;acc\u00e8s \u00e0 un r\u00e9seau de partenaires \u00e9ligibles.<\/li>\n<li><strong>L&rsquo;acquisition d&rsquo;informations intimes (\u00ab insider mating information \u00bb) :<\/strong> Elle \u00e9value la valeur des conseils et d\u00e9codages comportementaux fournis par un ami de sexe oppos\u00e9 quant aux attentes, d\u00e9sirs et crit\u00e8res de s\u00e9lection du genre convoit\u00e9.<\/li>\n<li><strong>La protection et l&rsquo;alliance physique :<\/strong> L&rsquo;outil mesure la valeur dissuasive et protectrice conf\u00e9r\u00e9e par la pr\u00e9sence d&rsquo;un pair, notamment pour les femmes face aux agressions potentielles.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Les co\u00fbts cach\u00e9s et asym\u00e9triques :<\/strong> L&rsquo;instrument capture m\u00e9ticuleusement la d\u00e9tresse engendr\u00e9e par le d\u00e9sir sexuel unilat\u00e9ral (\u00ab friend zone \u00bb), la jalousie induite chez le partenaire conjugal officiel, la comp\u00e9tition amoureuse ou les d\u00e9rives de pr\u00e9dation amoureuse mutuelle.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Dans le domaine de la recherche empirique, la CBFS sert de r\u00e9f\u00e9rence pour comparer les mod\u00e8les cognitifs masculins et f\u00e9minins en fonction de l&rsquo;orientation sociosexuelle, de la valeur marchande auto-per\u00e7ue sur le march\u00e9 de la s\u00e9duction (<em>mate value<\/em>) et du cycle de vie. En clinique et en psychoth\u00e9rapie syst\u00e9mique ou de couple, cette \u00e9chelle fournit un cadre rigoureux pour comprendre l&rsquo;\u00e9mergence des triangulations jalouses, des infid\u00e9lit\u00e9s \u00e9motionnelles, et les sentiments d&rsquo;ambigu\u00eft\u00e9 relationnelle qui minent fr\u00e9quemment la stabilit\u00e9 conjugale ou les groupes de pairs.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Construit psychologique \/ Construct<\/h2>\n<p>Le construit mesur\u00e9 par la CBFS s&rsquo;articule autour de la conceptualisation des relations amicales comme des syst\u00e8mes d&rsquo;\u00e9change r\u00e9ciproque r\u00e9gis par des calculs inconscients de rentabilit\u00e9 adaptative. L&rsquo;instrument op\u00e8re une distinction cruciale entre les dynamiques associ\u00e9es aux amiti\u00e9s de m\u00eame sexe et celles sp\u00e9cifiques aux amiti\u00e9s de sexe oppos\u00e9, tout en fractionnant les \u00e9valuations selon deux axes orthogonaux : la magnitude des b\u00e9n\u00e9fices per\u00e7us et la s\u00e9v\u00e9rit\u00e9 des co\u00fbts subis.<\/p>\n<h3>5.1. Les dimensions de b\u00e9n\u00e9fices (Benefits)<\/h3>\n<p>L&rsquo;exploration factorielle et th\u00e9orique de Bleske et Buss a isol\u00e9 plusieurs grappes majeures de b\u00e9n\u00e9fices :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Acc\u00e8s et facilitation sexuelle (Short-Term and Long-Term Mating Facilitation) :<\/strong> Cette dimension regroupe les items d\u00e9crivant la possibilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;avoir des rapports sexuels fortuits (\u00ab <em>We had sexual intercourse<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He let me have sex with him<\/em> \u00bb), la probabilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;une transition vers une relation de couple (\u00ab <em>There was the possibility of a future relationship beyond friendship<\/em> \u00bb) ou encore l&rsquo;aide apport\u00e9e pour approcher d&rsquo;autres partenaires convoit\u00e9s (\u00ab <em>He set me up with women<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Renseignement privil\u00e9gi\u00e9 sur le sexe oppos\u00e9 (Opposite-Sex Information) :<\/strong> L&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 fournit une fen\u00eatre d&rsquo;observation directe sur la psychologie de l&rsquo;autre genre (\u00ab <em>He helped me understand the opposite sex<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He told me what women want and like in a romantic partner<\/em> \u00bb). Ce capital informationnel permet d&rsquo;affiner ses propres tactiques de parade amoureuse.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Protection physique et s\u00e9curit\u00e9 territoriale (Protection) :<\/strong> Principalement pr\u00e9valente chez les femmes \u00e9valuant leurs amis masculins, cette dimension regroupe le gardiennage physique, la s\u00e9curisation des d\u00e9placements nocturnes et la dissuasion active contre les pr\u00e9tendants ind\u00e9sirables ou agressifs (\u00ab <em>He walked me to my car at night<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He protected me<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Soutien socio-\u00e9motionnel et estime de soi (Emotional and Self-Esteem Boost) :<\/strong> Elle comprend la confiance intime, la catharsis verbale et l&rsquo;am\u00e9lioration de la perception de son attractivit\u00e9 globale par renforcement social (\u00ab <em>He boosted my self-esteem<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>I could tell him everything<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He made me feel attractive to the opposite sex<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Ressources mat\u00e9rielles, statut et utilit\u00e9 pratique (Resources and Status) :<\/strong> Cette cat\u00e9gorie r\u00e9f\u00e8re aux services logistiques (\u00ab <em>He ran errands for me<\/em> \u00bb), aux sorties financ\u00e9es (\u00ab <em>He paid for me when we went out<\/em> \u00bb) et au prestige conf\u00e9r\u00e9 par l&rsquo;association avec un pair valoris\u00e9 (\u00ab <em>People treated me with respect because I was his friend<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>5.2. Les dimensions de co\u00fbts (Costs)<\/h3>\n<p>Les frictions inh\u00e9rentes \u00e0 l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 se cristallisent autour de facteurs d&rsquo;entrave reproductive, sociale et mat\u00e9rielle :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Attirance non r\u00e9ciproque et frustration sexuelle (Unreciprocated Sexual\/Romantic Desire) :<\/strong> L&rsquo;un des co\u00fbts les plus saillants r\u00e9side dans l&rsquo;incapacit\u00e9 \u00e0 concr\u00e9tiser une tension amoureuse, entra\u00eenant d\u00e9tresse psychologique et jalousie latente (\u00ab <em>I was in love with him, but he was not in love with me<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>It annoyed me that he wouldn\u2019t have sex with me<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He saw me as &lsquo;just a friend&rsquo;<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rivalit\u00e9 et interf\u00e9rence amoureuse (Mating Rivalry) :<\/strong> Plus prononc\u00e9e dans les amiti\u00e9s de m\u00eame sexe, cette dimension mesure la comp\u00e9tition directe pour les m\u00eames partenaires et les actes d&rsquo;infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 indirecte (\u00ab <em>He liked the same women that I did<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He got drunk and had sex with my friends<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He dated a girl that I liked<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Conflits conjugaux et jalousie du partenaire officiel (Relational Interference) :<\/strong> L&rsquo;amiti\u00e9, en particulier de sexe oppos\u00e9, suscite r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement des tensions dans le couple pr\u00e9existant de l&rsquo;individu (\u00ab <em>I felt like I had to hide our friendship from my girlfriend<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>His girlfriend got jealous of the time I spend with him<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Drainage de ressources et d\u00e9valorisation narcissique (Resource Drain and Demeaning Behaviors) :<\/strong> Ces items ciblent les demandes temporelles excessives, les pr\u00eats d&rsquo;argent non rembours\u00e9s, les brimades publiques ou l&rsquo;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 corporelle g\u00e9n\u00e9r\u00e9e par la comparaison descendante (\u00ab <em>I spent a lot of money on him<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He belittled me in front of others<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>My self-esteem went down when I was with him because he was so physically attractive<\/em> \u00bb).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>6. Cadre th\u00e9orique \/ Theoretical Framework<\/h2>\n<p>La conception de la CBFS s&rsquo;enracine rigoureusement au confluent de trois th\u00e9ories fondatrices de la biologie \u00e9volutive et de l&rsquo;\u00e9thologie humaine :<\/p>\n<h3>6.1. La th\u00e9orie de l&rsquo;altruisme r\u00e9ciproque de Trivers (1971)<\/h3>\n<p>Formul\u00e9e par <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Robert_Trivers\">Robert Trivers<\/a>, la th\u00e9orie de l&rsquo;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reciprocal_altruism\">altruisme r\u00e9ciproque<\/a> postule que la s\u00e9lection naturelle favorise les conduites coop\u00e9ratives co\u00fbteuses pour le donateur si et seulement si la probabilit\u00e9 de retour temp\u00e9r\u00e9 par le b\u00e9n\u00e9ficiaire exc\u00e8de, sur le long terme, les d\u00e9penses imm\u00e9diates consenties. La CBFS op\u00e9rationnalise directement ce bilan comptable adaptatif. Pour qu&rsquo;une amiti\u00e9 persiste dans le r\u00e9pertoire d&rsquo;un hominid\u00e9, le cumul pond\u00e9r\u00e9 des gains de survie et d&rsquo;acc\u00e8s aux ressources doit math\u00e9matiquement contrebalancer les risques de tricherie, d&rsquo;exploitation et de pr\u00e9dation passive.<\/p>\n<h3>6.2. La th\u00e9orie de l&rsquo;investissement parental et les asym\u00e9tries sexu\u00e9es (Trivers, 1972)<\/h3>\n<p>Selon le paradigme de l&rsquo;investissement parental, le sexe qui supporte les contraintes physiologiques minimales les plus lourdes associ\u00e9es \u00e0 la gestation et \u00e0 la lactation (les femmes chez <em>Homo sapiens<\/em>) fait preuve d&rsquo;une plus grande s\u00e9lectivit\u00e9 dans ses choix d&rsquo;accouplement. \u00c0 l&rsquo;inverse, le sexe ayant l&rsquo;investissement physiologique obligatoire le plus r\u00e9duit (les hommes) est soumis \u00e0 une s\u00e9lection plus intense pour l&rsquo;acc\u00e8s opportuniste \u00e0 la vari\u00e9t\u00e9 sexuelle. Bleske et Buss ont transpos\u00e9 cette dissym\u00e9trie au terrain de l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Les hommes per\u00e7oivent tendanciellement l&rsquo;acc\u00e8s sexuel \u00e0 court terme comme un b\u00e9n\u00e9fice majeur d&rsquo;une amiti\u00e9 f\u00e9minine, et le refus sexuel comme un co\u00fbt notable.<\/li>\n<li>Les femmes valorisent de mani\u00e8re pr\u00e9pond\u00e9rante la protection physique et l&rsquo;octroi d&rsquo;aides concr\u00e8tes chez leurs amis masculins, tout en consid\u00e9rant les avances sexuelles non sollicit\u00e9es comme un co\u00fbt destabilisateur pour la pr\u00e9servation de la relation platonique.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>6.3. La th\u00e9orie des strat\u00e9gies sexuelles de Buss et Schmitt (1993)<\/h3>\n<p>La <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sexual_strategies_theory\">th\u00e9orie des strat\u00e9gies sexuelles<\/a> d\u00e9montre que les humains naviguent continuellement entre des modes d&rsquo;appariement \u00e0 court terme et \u00e0 long terme. Dans cette perspective, les amiti\u00e9s ne sont pas \u00e9tanches aux contingences reproductives : elles peuvent constituer un banc d&rsquo;essai pr\u00e9-matrimonial, un syst\u00e8me satellite d&rsquo;opportunisme sexuel d\u00e9guis\u00e9 (<em>back-up mate<\/em>) ou une vitrine pour attirer d&rsquo;autres rivaux via le ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne de copie du choix du partenaire (<em>mate copying<\/em>).<\/p>\n<h2>7. Validit\u00e9 \/ Validity<\/h2>\n<p>L&rsquo;\u00e9valuation psychom\u00e9trique de la CBFS lors des \u00e9tudes men\u00e9es par Bleske et Buss (2000), consolid\u00e9e par des travaux longitudinaux ult\u00e9rieurs, t\u00e9moigne d&rsquo;une validit\u00e9 empirique approfondie :<\/p>\n<h3>7.1. Validit\u00e9 de contenu et d&rsquo;\u00e9laboration des items<\/h3>\n<p>Les 115 \u00e9nonc\u00e9s de l&rsquo;\u00e9chelle proviennent d&rsquo;une d\u00e9marche de g\u00e9n\u00e9ration inductive rigoureuse (\u00c9tude 1 de Bleske &amp; Buss). Une premi\u00e8re cohorte d&rsquo;hommes et de femmes a dress\u00e9 une liste exhaustive de tous les aspects gratifiants et contraignants rencontr\u00e9s dans le cadre de leurs amiti\u00e9s r\u00e9elles, tant homosociales qu&rsquo;h\u00e9t\u00e9rosociales. Cette collecte ouverte a \u00e9t\u00e9 soumise \u00e0 un panel d&rsquo;experts afin d&rsquo;\u00e9liminer les redondances s\u00e9mantiques, d&rsquo;\u00e9quilibrer la polarit\u00e9 des affirmations et de pr\u00e9server un ancrage \u00e9cologique optimal.<\/p>\n<h3>7.2. Validit\u00e9 de construit et pr\u00e9dictive<\/h3>\n<p>La validit\u00e9 de construit est \u00e9tay\u00e9e par la concordance syst\u00e9matique entre les donn\u00e9es empiriques et les pr\u00e9dictions \u00e9volutionnistes <em>a priori<\/em> :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Hypoth\u00e8se de l&rsquo;acc\u00e8s sexuel :<\/strong> Les hommes accordent des scores de b\u00e9n\u00e9fice significativement plus \u00e9lev\u00e9s \u00e0 l&rsquo;item \u00ab <em>We had sexual intercourse<\/em> \u00bb ou \u00ab <em>There was the possibility of a future relationship beyond friendship<\/em> \u00bb que les femmes (<span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"p &lt; 0,001\">$p &lt; 0,001$<\/span>, avec des tailles d&rsquo;effet <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"d\">$d$<\/span> de Cohen oscillant entre 0,60 et 0,85).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Hypoth\u00e8se de protection physique :<\/strong> Les femmes \u00e9valuent les items relatifs \u00e0 la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 (\u00ab <em>He walked me to my car at night<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He protected me<\/em> \u00bb) avec un score moyen de b\u00e9n\u00e9fice substantiellement sup\u00e9rieur \u00e0 celui formul\u00e9 par les hommes \u00e9valuant leurs amies (<span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"p &lt; 0,001\">$p &lt; 0,001$<\/span>, <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"d &gt; 1,00\">$d &gt; 1,00$<\/span>).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Hypoth\u00e8se de rivalit\u00e9 intrasexuelle :<\/strong> Les items refl\u00e9tant la comp\u00e9tition romantique (\u00ab <em>We competed to attract women<\/em> \u00bb, \u00ab <em>He dated a girl that I liked<\/em> \u00bb) sont massivement satur\u00e9s au sein des amiti\u00e9s homosociales masculines et \u00e9valu\u00e9s comme des co\u00fbts significatifs par les r\u00e9pondants des deux sexes.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>7.3. Validit\u00e9 convergente et discriminante<\/h3>\n<p>Les scores de la CBFS corr\u00e8lent de fa\u00e7on coh\u00e9rente avec des inventaires psychologiques standardis\u00e9s :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>L&rsquo;orientation sociosexuelle (mesur\u00e9e via le SOI de Simpson &amp; Gangestad) pr\u00e9sente une corr\u00e9lation positive mod\u00e9r\u00e9e \u00e0 forte (<span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"r = 0,42\">$r = 0,42$<\/span> \u00e0 $0,55$, <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"p &lt; 0,01\">$p &lt; 0,01$<\/span>) avec l&rsquo;attribution d&rsquo;un score de b\u00e9n\u00e9fice \u00e9lev\u00e9 aux opportunit\u00e9s sexuelles au sein de l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9.<\/li>\n<li>La sous-\u00e9chelle de rivalit\u00e9 intrasexuelle corr\u00e8le positivement avec l&rsquo;\u00c9chelle d&rsquo;estime de soi sociale et les inventaires de jalousie de Buss, mais demeure orthogonale aux mesures d&rsquo;intelligence g\u00e9n\u00e9rale ou d&rsquo;introversion non sociale, confirmant une ad\u00e9quate validit\u00e9 discriminante.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>8. Fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 \/ Reliability<\/h2>\n<p>Les param\u00e8tres de reproductibilit\u00e9 et de coh\u00e9rence interne de la CBFS ont \u00e9t\u00e9 valid\u00e9s sur plusieurs cohortes d&rsquo;adultes \u00e9mergents et de populations communautaires :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Consistance interne :<\/strong> Les sous-\u00e9chelles composites construites \u00e0 partir des facteurs de b\u00e9n\u00e9fices et de co\u00fbts pr\u00e9sentent des indices de coh\u00e9rence remarquables. Le coefficient <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Cronbach%27s_alpha\">alpha de Cronbach<\/a> pour la macro-dimension des \u00ab B\u00e9n\u00e9fices d&rsquo;acc\u00e8s romantique et sexuel \u00bb s&rsquo;\u00e9l\u00e8ve \u00e0 <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"\\alpha = 0,88\">$\\alpha = 0,88$<\/span> chez les hommes et <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"\\alpha = 0,84\">$\\alpha = 0,84$<\/span> chez les femmes. La dimension de \u00ab Protection physique \u00bb affiche un coefficient <span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"\\alpha = 0,91\">$\\alpha = 0,91$<\/span>. Les dimensions plus h\u00e9t\u00e9rog\u00e8nes des co\u00fbts de \u00ab Drainage de ressources \u00bb et \u00ab Rivalit\u00e9 intrasexuelle \u00bb obtiennent des valeurs d&rsquo;alpha s&rsquo;\u00e9talant de 0,72 \u00e0 0,83, respectant largement les seuils psychom\u00e9triques conventionnels requis pour la recherche.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 test-retest :<\/strong> \u00c9valu\u00e9e sur un intervalle temporel de 4 \u00e0 6 semaines aupr\u00e8s d&rsquo;un sous-\u00e9chantillon d&rsquo;\u00e9tudiants (<span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"N = 112\">$N = 112$<\/span>), la stabilit\u00e9 temporelle des scores individuels a affich\u00e9 un coefficient de corr\u00e9lation intra-classe (ICC) compris entre 0,74 et 0,86. Cette stabilit\u00e9 confirme que l&rsquo;\u00e9valuation des co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices ne traduit pas un \u00e9tat affectif transitoire (<em>state<\/em>), mais capture fid\u00e8lement les repr\u00e9sentations structurelles de l&rsquo;individu vis-\u00e0-vis de son r\u00e9seau amical (<em>trait<\/em>).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>9. Analyse factorielle \/ Factor Analysis<\/h2>\n<p>Dans l&rsquo;article princeps de Bleske et Buss (2000), des analyses factorielles exploratoires (AFE) par d\u00e9composition en composantes principales (ACP) avec rotations obliques (Promax) et orthogonales (Varimax) ont \u00e9t\u00e9 appliqu\u00e9es s\u00e9par\u00e9ment sur les matrices de corr\u00e9lations des b\u00e9n\u00e9fices et des co\u00fbts pour les relations de m\u00eame sexe et de sexe oppos\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h3>9.1. Structure factorielle des b\u00e9n\u00e9fices<\/h3>\n<p>L&rsquo;analyse met en exergue une structure poly-factorielle expliquant plus de 52 % de la variance totale des r\u00e9ponses. Les axes prioritaires identifi\u00e9s sont :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Facteur 1 : Renseignement et apprentissage h\u00e9t\u00e9rosexuel (Opposite-Sex Insight) :<\/strong> Ce facteur regroupe les items 41, 44, 47, 49 et 90, avec des saturations factorielles dominantes oscillant entre 0,62 et 0,81.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 2 : Opportunit\u00e9s et contact sexuels (Sexual Access) :<\/strong> Regroupe les items 15, 18, 29, 33 et 109, avec des saturations tr\u00e8s \u00e9lev\u00e9es (<span class=\"arabpsy-math-inline\" data-latex=\"&gt; 0,70\">$&gt; 0,70$<\/span>). Ce facteur pr\u00e9sente les \u00e9carts d&rsquo;\u00e9valuation intersexes les plus marqu\u00e9s.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 3 : Soutien mat\u00e9riel et utilitaire (Resource\/Errand Support) :<\/strong> Satur\u00e9 principalement par les items 19, 28, 34, 65 et 78.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 4 : Sauvegarde physique (Physical Defense) :<\/strong> Domin\u00e9 par les items 4, 12, 14 et 102 (saturations comprises entre 0,68 et 0,85).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>9.2. Structure factorielle des co\u00fbts<\/h3>\n<p>L&rsquo;espace factoriel des co\u00fbts isole distinctement les dynamiques d&rsquo;entrave relationnelle et de dissym\u00e9trie motivationnelle :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Facteur 1 : Frictions amoureuses et jalousie d&rsquo;autrui (Relationship Conflict &amp; Third-Party Jealousy) :<\/strong> Caract\u00e9ris\u00e9 par les items 9, 39, 51, 56, 59 et 88 (saturations factorielles allant de 0,55 \u00e0 0,78).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 2 : D\u00e9sir asym\u00e9trique et rejet (Unrequited Romance &amp; Sexual Frustration) :<\/strong> Regroupe les items 7, 22, 43, 52, 79, 99 et 107.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 3 : Comp\u00e9tition et parasitisme amical (Intrasexual Competition) :<\/strong> Satur\u00e9 fortement par les items 20, 26, 53, 64, 72 et 98.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Facteur 4 : D\u00e9nigrement et atteinte \u00e0 la r\u00e9putation (Social Costs &amp; Status Demotion) :<\/strong> Satur\u00e9 par les items 3, 6, 10, 50, 82, 84, 96 et 115.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Les mod\u00e9lisations en \u00e9quations structurelles et analyses factorielles confirmatoires (AFC) men\u00e9es dans des r\u00e9plications transculturelles contemporaines d\u00e9montrent des indices d&rsquo;ad\u00e9quation acceptables \u00e0 excellents (RMSEA &lt; 0,06 ; CFI &gt; 0,90) lorsque les sous-dimensions sont analys\u00e9es par sous-groupes selon le sexe de l&rsquo;\u00e9valuateur et le sexe de la cible amicale.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Instrument de mesure \/ Instrument<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>D\u00e9nomination officielle :<\/strong> \u00c9chelle des co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices de l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 (<em>Cost and Benefit of Friendship Scale<\/em> &#8211; CBFS).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Auteurs :<\/strong> April L. Bleske et David M. Buss (2000).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Format d&rsquo;administration :<\/strong> Questionnaire auto-administr\u00e9 sur support papier-crayon ou via des plateformes d&rsquo;\u00e9valuation informatis\u00e9es.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nombre total d&rsquo;items :<\/strong> 115 \u00e9nonc\u00e9s comportementaux et situationnels.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Format de cotation bidirectionnel :<\/strong> Pour chaque item \u00e9nonc\u00e9, le participant renseigne une double \u00e9valuation \u00e0 l&rsquo;aide d&rsquo;une \u00e9chelle de Likert en 7 points :\n<ul>\n<li><strong>\u00c9valuation du B\u00e9n\u00e9fice (How Beneficial?) :<\/strong> \u00c9valu\u00e9 de 1 (Pas du tout b\u00e9n\u00e9fique \/ <em>Not at all<\/em>) \u00e0 4 (Mod\u00e9r\u00e9ment b\u00e9n\u00e9fique \/ <em>Somewhat<\/em>) jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 7 (Extr\u00eamement b\u00e9n\u00e9fique \/ <em>Very<\/em>).<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u00c9valuation du Co\u00fbt (How Costly?) :<\/strong> \u00c9valu\u00e9 de 1 (Pas du tout co\u00fbteux \/ <em>Not at all<\/em>) \u00e0 4 (Mod\u00e9r\u00e9ment co\u00fbteux \/ <em>Somewhat<\/em>) jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 7 (Extr\u00eamement co\u00fbteux \/ <em>Very<\/em>).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Conditions d&rsquo;administration :<\/strong> L&rsquo;outil peut \u00eatre administr\u00e9 de fa\u00e7on g\u00e9n\u00e9rique (en \u00e9valuant l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 typique avec une personne du m\u00eame sexe ou du sexe oppos\u00e9) ou de mani\u00e8re focalis\u00e9e (en demandant au r\u00e9pondant de cibler son meilleur ami ou un ami proche sp\u00e9cifique).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Temps de passation estim\u00e9 :<\/strong> Environ 25 \u00e0 40 minutes selon la m\u00e9thodologie de recueil (simple \u00e9valuation ou double passation comparative).<\/li>\n<li><strong>Calcul des scores :<\/strong> Les scores composites des sous-\u00e9chelles sont d\u00e9termin\u00e9s en calculant la moyenne arithm\u00e9tique ou la somme des items constitutifs de chaque facteur, ventil\u00e9s selon la nature des \u00e9valuations (scores de b\u00e9n\u00e9fices versus scores de co\u00fbts).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>11. Permissions, Tarifs et Ann\u00e9e du test \/ Permissions &amp; Fee and Test Year<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Ann\u00e9e de conception originale :<\/strong> 2000.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Copyright et propri\u00e9t\u00e9 intellectuelle :<\/strong> D\u00e9tenu initialement par les auteurs (April L. Bleske et David M. Buss) et la maison d&rsquo;\u00e9dition scientifique <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/\">Wiley-Blackwell<\/a> pour le compte de l&rsquo;<em>International Association for Relationship Research (IARR)<\/em>, \u00e9ditrice de la revue <em>Personal Relationships<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tarifs d&rsquo;utilisation :<\/strong> Gratuit pour toute utilisation acad\u00e9mique, p\u00e9dagogique ou de recherche non commerciale. Aucune redevance commerciale n&rsquo;est requise dans le cadre d&rsquo;\u00e9tudes universitaires fondamentales sous r\u00e9serve de citer scrupuleusement la publication de r\u00e9f\u00e9rence.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Demande d&rsquo;autorisation :<\/strong> Les \u00e9quipes de recherche d\u00e9sirant adapter, traduire ou d\u00e9ployer l&rsquo;instrument dans des cadres cliniques ou de consultation priv\u00e9e sont invit\u00e9es \u00e0 formuler une demande formelle par courriel aupr\u00e8s des auteurs ou via les services de permissions de la revue source.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>12. R\u00e9f\u00e9rences \/ References<\/h2>\n<p>Voici les r\u00e9f\u00e9rences fondamentales documentant le d\u00e9veloppement, les fondations th\u00e9oriques et les propri\u00e9t\u00e9s m\u00e9trologiques de l&rsquo;\u00e9chelle :<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bleske, A. L., &amp; Buss, D. M. (2000). Can men and women just be friends? <em>Personal Relationships<\/em>, 7(2), 131-151. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/j.1475-6811.2000.tb00008.x\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1111\/j.1475-6811.2000.tb00008.x<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Bleske-Rechek, A., Somers, E., Micke, C., Erickson, L., Matteson, L., Stocco, C., Schumacher, B., &amp; Ritchie, L. (2012). Benefit or burden? Attraction in cross-sex friendship. <em>Journal of Social and Personal Relationships<\/em>, 29(5), 569-596. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/0265407512443616\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/0265407512443616<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Buss, D. M., &amp; Schmitt, D. P. (1993). Sexual Strategies Theory: An evolutionary perspective on human mating. <em>Psychological Review<\/em>, 100(2), 204-232. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/0033-295X.100.2.204\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/0033-295X.100.2.204<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Hamilton, W. D. (1964). The genetical evolution of social behaviour. I &amp; II. <em>Journal of Theoretical Biology<\/em>, 7(1), 1-52. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/0022-5193(64)90038-4\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/0022-5193(64)90038-4<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Kaplan, D. L., &amp; Keys, C. B. (1997). Sex and relationship variables as predictors of sexual attraction in cross-sex friendships. <em>The Journal of Social Psychology<\/em>, 137(2), 191-201. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/00224549709595430\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/00224549709595430<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Swain, S. (1992). Men&rsquo;s friendships with women: Intimacy, emotional involvement, and sex roles. In P. M. Nardi (Ed.), <em>Men&rsquo;s friendships<\/em> (pp. 153-171). Sage Publications.<\/li>\n<li>Trivers, R. L. (1971). The evolution of reciprocal altruism. <em>The Quarterly Review of Biology<\/em>, 46(1), 35-57. <a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1086\/406755\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1086\/406755<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Trivers, R. L. (1972). Parental investment and sexual selection. In B. Campbell (Ed.), <em>Sexual selection and the descent of man 1871-1971<\/em> (pp. 136-179). Aldine.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>13. Questions et items du questionnaire (Scale Items)<\/h2>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-items-container\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:12px; margin:28px 0; overflow:hidden; box-shadow:0 4px 12px rgba(0,0,0,0.03);\">\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-notice\" style=\"direction:ltr; text-align:left; background:#f8fafc; border-bottom:1px solid #e2e8f0; padding:14px 20px; font-size:13.5px; color:#475569; font-weight:500;\">\n    Voici les items originaux de l&rsquo;\u00e9chelle tels que publi\u00e9s dans les \u00e9tudes psychom\u00e9triques de r\u00e9f\u00e9rence, sans modification ni traduction, afin de pr\u00e9server la validit\u00e9 et la fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 de l&rsquo;instrument :\n  <\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-english-box\" style=\"direction:ltr; text-align:left; padding:20px 24px; font-family:-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size:14.5px; color:#1e293b; line-height:1.7;\">\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He introduced me to his friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I spent a lot of money on him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">3<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was condescending towards me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">4<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He walked me to my car at night.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">5<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He could tell me anything.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">6<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">People thought I was a bad person because I hung out with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">7<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I didn\u2019t get to have sex with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">8<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made me feel good about myself by complimenting me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">9<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I made his girlfriend jealous.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">10<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">Others disliked me because I hung out with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">11<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt like I had no control over who he had sex with.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">12<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He protected me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">13<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I could not discuss other women with him for fear of losing him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">14<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt safer in dangerous situations when I was with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">15<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We had sexual intercourse.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">16<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He took care of me when another girl was being too sexually aggressive towards me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">17<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He gave me flowers and cards.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">18<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He let me have sex with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">19<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He bought me things.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">20<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He got drunk and had sex with my friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">21<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me if I deserved someone better than the girl I was with.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">22<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I wanted to date him but didn\u2019t know how he felt about me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">23<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He owned an expensive car.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">24<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I prevented him from having sex with someone else.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">25<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">Our friendship demanded a lot of my time.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">26<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He took advantage of my girlfriend while I was away.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">27<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I gave up my time to help him, no matter how busy I was.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">28<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He went out to dinner with me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">29<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">There was the possibility of a future relationship beyond friendship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">30<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">My self-esteem went down when I was with him because he was so physically attractive.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">31<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He saw me as \u201cjust a friend.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">32<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I had a say in who he had sex with.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">33<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He gave me sexual pleasure if I was stressed.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">34<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He paid for me when we went out.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">35<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He had sex with a lot of girls.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">36<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I loaned him money.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">37<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He gave me good advice about girls. He denied me sex.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">38<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He wanted to date me, but I didn\u2019t want to date him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">39<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He had a girlfriend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">40<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me if I was not good enough for a certain girl.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">41<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He helped me understand the opposite sex.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">42<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I paid for him when we went places.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">43<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">My lust for him interfered with my ability to be friends with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">44<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me what women want and like in a romantic partner.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">45<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I discouraged him from having sex with other girls.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">46<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He didn\u2019t want to be my girlfriend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">47<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He gave me advice on how to attract women.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">48<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We are confused about our feelings for one another.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">49<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I got an idea of what girls want by hanging out with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">50<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made public jokes at my expense.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">51<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made my girlfriend jealous.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">52<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I was in love with him, but he was not in love with me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">53<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He use to flirt with my girlfriend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">54<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I was jealous of the other girls in his life.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">55<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He talked about other girls to make me jealous.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">56<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt like I had to hide our friendship from my girlfriend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">57<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He helped me meet other girls.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">58<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">My pressuring him for sex led to a lessening of our friendship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">59<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">My girlfriend tried to compete with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">60<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He set me up with women.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">61<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I didn\u2019t let him have sex with other women.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">62<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">It was hard to determine whether we were going to stay friends or move on to a romantic relationship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">63<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He would have made a great girlfriend if we had decided to date.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">64<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He dated a girl that I liked.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">65<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He ran errands for me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">66<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He didn\u2019t see me as more than \u201cone of the guys.\u201d<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">67<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He scared away other girls from talking to me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">68<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made me feel wanted by the opposite sex.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">69<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt bad talking to other girls when I was around him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">70<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me which women I could and could not attract.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">71<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I could tell him everything, even things I couldn\u2019t tell my girlfriends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">72<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He had sexual intercourse with my friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">73<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">People treated me with respect because I was his friend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">74<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">It was harder for me to meet new girls when he was around.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">75<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was popular.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">76<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I could not reciprocate the feelings he had for me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">77<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was respected by other people.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">78<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was a ready-made date.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">79<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">It annoyed me that he wouldn\u2019t have sex with me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">80<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">Others liked me because I hung out with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">81<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was everything I could ask for in a girlfriend.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">82<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He belittled me in front of others.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">83<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">It was difficult to meet his friends because others thought I was dating him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">84<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made fun of me in public.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">85<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He boosted my self-esteem.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">86<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I kept him from having sex with anyone but me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">87<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He boosted my ego.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">88<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">His girlfriend got jealous of the time I spend with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">89<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We competed to attract women.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">90<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He helped my feel more confident in romantic relationships.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">91<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We talked about the details of each other\u2019s sex life.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">92<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He wouldn\u2019t allow me to date his friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">93<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made me feel attractive to the opposite sex.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">94<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt unattractive in comparison to him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">95<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">His girlfriend paid more attention to him when I spent a lot of time with him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">96<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He made me feel insecure about my worth.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">97<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was somebody that I used sexually.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">98<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He liked the same women that I did.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">99<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I wanted to date him, but he didn\u2019t like me in that way.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">100<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I felt guilty if I talked about other women around him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">101<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I got confused over the status of our relationship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">102<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He watched over me in any situation.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">103<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We went out together to meet women.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">104<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He had sex with too many girls.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">105<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me which women would like me or not.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">106<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He ignored me when I said I didn\u2019t want to date him.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">107<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He did not want to be more than friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">108<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">I could talk to him about anything.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">109<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">We had sexual intercourse.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">110<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He was clean-cut, respectable to hang out with.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">111<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He could talk about everything and anything with me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">112<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">Our feelings for each other got in the way of the friendship.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">113<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He arranged for me to go on dates with his friends.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">114<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He told me when my girlfriends weren\u2019t good enough for me.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpt-scale-item-row\" style=\"background:#ffffff; border:1px solid #e2e8f0; border-radius:8px; padding:12px 16px; margin-bottom:10px; display:flex; align-items:flex-start; gap:12px; box-shadow:0 1px 2px rgba(0,0,0,0.02);\">\n  <span style=\"display:inline-flex; align-items:center; justify-content:center; min-width:28px; height:28px; background:#2563eb; color:#ffffff; font-weight:700; font-size:12.5px; border-radius:50%; flex-shrink:0; margin-top:1px;\">115<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"flex:1; color:#0f172a; font-size:14.5px; font-weight:500; line-height:1.6;\">He looked down on me.<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D\u00e9couvrez l&rsquo;\u00e9chelle des co\u00fbts et b\u00e9n\u00e9fices de l&rsquo;amiti\u00e9 (CBFS) de Bleske et Buss (2000) : cadre th\u00e9orique \u00e9volutionniste, dimensions psychom\u00e9triques, validit\u00e9 et liste int\u00e9grale des items.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","categories":[3331,154,2],"tags":[15760,250,30186,30187,8350,1653,3092],"class_list":["post-18899","psych_scale","type-psych_scale","status-publish","hentry","category-psychologie-evolutionniste","category-psychologie-sociale","category-psychometrie","tag-amitie","tag-attirance-sexuelle","tag-cbfs","tag-couts-et-benefices","tag-david-buss","tag-psychologie-evolutionniste","tag-relations-interpersonnelles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/psych_scale\/18899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/psych_scale"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/psych_scale"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/psych_scale\/18899\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/french.arabpsychology.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}